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givemeyourhonor) wrote2025-01-09 10:24 am
givemeyourhonor) wrote2025-01-09 10:24 am
Snowflake Challenge 2025, Challenge 3
In your own space, talk about a fannish opinion you hold that has changed over time
This is a bit of a hard one because I can't think of too many that are fundamentally big, other than trying to be a bit less judgemental on people for things and a little more considerate when I complain about things I don't like in public—a sort of how I'd like others to be treated.
I guess a big one that relates a little more to dwrp and might be a little wanky to some is I realized it is okay to be m/m only for shipping. I've enjoyed some of the female characters I've played with, but overall, I found myself getting anxious about it and realized it's okay to be exclusionary about your tastes on that front. Same with writing. I don't worry as much about what the gender configuration of my ships says about me anymore.
This is a bit of a hard one because I can't think of too many that are fundamentally big, other than trying to be a bit less judgemental on people for things and a little more considerate when I complain about things I don't like in public—a sort of how I'd like others to be treated.
I guess a big one that relates a little more to dwrp and might be a little wanky to some is I realized it is okay to be m/m only for shipping. I've enjoyed some of the female characters I've played with, but overall, I found myself getting anxious about it and realized it's okay to be exclusionary about your tastes on that front. Same with writing. I don't worry as much about what the gender configuration of my ships says about me anymore.